sometimes,i just dont understand the restrictions between a couple in a relationship.im not stating any names here but this is just base on own experience. by just simply asking your partner, "dear,is it okay if i were to have my hair highlighted?it cost me 19.90?will that be fine to you?" And your partner suddenly go boinkers by telling you that if you have the money,do it yourself coz he doesnt have the cash to provide you and at the same time,he sound a lil pissed when he answered your question. To add a lil more spice into the conversation,he simply said to you, "do whatever you want,up to you."
what would you react to this?
i myself just dont know what you want.whether YES or NO.whether im ABLE TO or I CANT. When we gurls asked for permission/suggestions,you guys gave us a whole lot of reasions saying this saying that,no money,"do whatever you want","up to you,its ur hair,not mine"kinda answer. but when we make our own decisions,another chaotic conversation wherby you guys said why we suka-suka make decision,not nice,not pretty,"big enuf already right to make decision"that kinda answer. so which is which you tell me?
sometimes i wonder,sweet words,we gurls tend to melt a lot when guys tryna sweet talk us.i dont deny that sweet words = major meltdown for us gurls.but like what people always say, "biler bercinta,semuanya indah,laki pegang kan bag,suap kan makanan utk kau,pimpin tangan kau,biler kau jatoh,dia tolong angkatkan kau,selalu bertuturkan kata kata manis pada kau,
tapi biler dah kahwin.dunia teros jadi terbalik.biler disoal,selalu dijiwabnya,buat ape buang masa je.awak tu dah kahwin dengan saya brape lama dah?dah buang tebiat ke nak buat gitu kat awak?"
ini belom kahwin,kalau dah kahwin,ape jadi la dengan kite pompan iyer? entahla.to me,simple. dont get to know me,and den sweet talk with me,get together,after a while,not even a year,you start showing your true colours. to me,be who you are.what you are,no need to sweet hell talk to me,just say whats inside your mind kinda thing you know.dont be this kinda guy.it hurts hell lot.
